SPECIAL REPORT - My Excellent Wife

Proverbs 31:10-11

An excellent wife who can find?
She is far more precious than jewels.
The heart of her husband trust in her,
and he will have no lack of gain.

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I had the rare opportunity last night to eavesdrop on a conversation between my wife and one of her best friends, Bethany. They were discussing parenting and getting into the details of correction and discipline, as well as the fundamentals of how we should view our children -- primarily as sinners, or as bearers of God's image. The more I listened, the more grateful and undeserving I felt. What a shame that I do not realize EVERY day what a treasure of wisdom and thoughtfulness I have here in my own house. I am so blessed to have a wife who is both my best friend and deepest love. I pray that she is blessed today in knowing how much I love and appreciate her...

Donna, you have given me every reason to trust in you.

You have carried our second child through months of sickness and weakness, all while caring for Gracie with your whole heart. You've given until it hurts, and then gave some more. You've prayed for me, encouraged me, and served me too many times to count.

I know that you will do me good, and not harm, all the days of your life.

You have proven time and again how to pinch a penny, make a dollar go farther, and find creative ways to get us through to the next paycheck. You've denied yourself dozens of times by putting off haircuts, buying generic off-brands, and considering the future before the decisions of today. You work your butt off, both in physical effort and intellectually, doing your research on parenting and real estate and cake decorating. These efforts, I truly know, are part of how you are strengthening this household.

You have dressed yourself with strength and made your arms strong.

I look to you before anyone else in my moments of doubt and confusion. You are a woman of incredible wisdom, not satisfied with pat answers, but digging deeply to find a genuine answer for the toughest questions. You are a woman of conviction, and you have stuck with your conscience so many times, even when there were few (or none) around you who agreed. That is true humility. You've put our family even above your own reputation, and I love you for it.

You open your mouth in wisdom and the teaching of kindness is on your tongue.

I am so very grateful for your sacrifice, for your constant affection and encouragement, and for the wisdom and thoughtfulness that you exude in every circumstance. You are truly praiseworthy, my bride and my friend. I will trust you all of my days, because I know that you are on my side, for my good, and for the good of our family.

Her children rise up and call her blessed;
her husband also, and he praises her.
P.S. Thanks for packing my lunch today! You are so sweet!